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Women's Roles
Anna's Story
There were no cookers, water or electricity, we cooked
and baked the bread on a metal pan on the hearth fire. We had to
carry the water from the spring well nearest to us. Our light was
from a paraffin lamp. We cut out turf on the mountain with a turf
spade, now there is a machine for cutting turf. The turf were cut
and spread out and when they were nearly dry they were win-rowed,
which means separating them, two on the ground and two on top going
the opposite way (8 turf in all). After that you stood them up in
about two weeks time and that leaves them ready for taking home.
Caroline's Story
More women work nowadays which means men have to take a more active
role in rearing the children, like changing nappies, etc. Now both
men and women go out for a night together. Women do not respect
men as much as our Mothers did. There is now more of a joint effort.
There was no contraception years ago and women had babies at home
with help from a 'handy' woman or a midwife. Nowadays there is contraception,
and children are born in hospital. Instead of getting married more
people are living together today. There is more pressure on women
today to pay bills and mortgages. I don't think women should be
domineered by men.
Annie, Sheila and Kathleen
Women helped with milking and farmyard jobs, and also in the fields
and in the bog. Men didn't do housework. The women stayed in the
background and attended the men. Women sacrificed their own food
to feed the men and children. They also made all the decisions regarding
the rearing of children. The men held the purse and took charge
of the finances and paid all the bills. The women made jam, sold
eggs and butter, sewed and knit for their own pocket money and for
little extras. Children were seen and not heard, they had no voice.
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